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8 flirt tips for the perfect message: get guaranteed a response

8 flirt tips for the perfect message: get guaranteed a response

Mar 28, 2017 |

While browsing on Jaumo, you come across a person whose profile you find very appealing and satisfies your hope for a match. But what should you now write to win his or her attention? Perhaps you have sent a lot of messages before, but rarely get a reply? Don’t be discouraged. If you follow these flirt tips, your messages will no longer remain unanswered.

1. Forget old patterns and flirt tips rules

First of all, you should get the whole gender-specific rules overboard. Why does the man have to message first? What does it mean that you as a woman take the initiative? And why do men have to admit themselves as unapproachable and may only write after a few days? Please forget these old rules and stop thinking in such patterns. Be active and stand by your interest.

2. Anything but 08/15

Each of us receives the same messages daily. Nothing more than “Hey, how are you?” Or “Well, what are you doing?” rarely comes out. Just as annoyed as you are from such phrases, also does your opposite. True to the motto “quality before quantity” you should from now on send no more boring messages. A personal message significantly increases your chances of getting a response.

3. Personal attention is important

To stand out from the crowd in your first message, take a look at the profile of the other. If an extraordinary photo is present and he or she writes of an exciting hobby, then refer to it. This shows that you are actually interested in the person and are curious about it. Important for our flirt tips: It is important that you always remain authentic.

4. Spelling errors are unsexy

Even if you are out of school for a long time, you should pay attention to correct spelling and grammar, as spelling mistakes are anything but sexy. Especially with your first message you should pay attention to it and it shows how much effort you have given. No one will delete you immediately if you make a mistake. Likewise, you should have your autocorrection in view so as not to accidentally send an embarrassing message.

5. Everyone likes compliments

Everyone is happy about nice compliments. To show your serious interest, try to make compliments about special qualities and less about appearance. Do not describe the obvious, but try to establish a concrete relation to the other person. If you write only that you find her or him hot, this is slightly superficial.

6. Keep the conversation going

Super, the first step has been done and you have found a nice or funny entry. Now, you only have to maintain the conversation. The best way to do this is to ask questions that your opponent can answer. Important for our Flirt-Tipps: Avoid asking questions that can only be answered with yes and no. Here, the danger is too great that the conversation quickly falls asleep or falls into oblivion. Even the standard questions about the hobbies, the work or the musical taste can quickly get boring. In the same breath, you can instead give something of yourself and your preferences.

7. Please do not push

Of course, nobody wants to write back and forth forever. The goal of the conversation is a real meeting with most seekers. However, you should not start right here. If you have briefly chatted a few times, do not start asking for a date. This will only generate pressure. If you already know something about the chat, the question about the first date will come alone.

8. Also accept a No

Are the answers of the other always longer or are becoming increasingly scarce? You’re unsure of what to think of it? Do not start to think about what this might mean. Question quite frankly, without being intrusive. If there is suddenly no interest, leave it at the best. Days later, writing again and again, rarely changes the situation.

You can find more flirt tips in our blog.

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